By Balwant Singh
is se kis muh se zameenon ki ladaai ladte
baad maa-baap ke jis bhai ne paala ham ko

With what face could we have fought him over land — the brother who raised us after our parents were gone?

Romanहिन्दीBalwant Singh
इस से किस मुँह से ज़मीनों की लड़ाई लड़ते
बाद माँ-बाप के जिस भाई ने पाला हम को

The verse in Devanagari — it carries the authenticity of the original, and every Hindi reader can read it.

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The Interpretation

A whole family drama refused in two lines. After the parents die, property turns brothers into litigants; the couplet halts at the very edge of that fight by recalling one fact — this brother is the one who raised me. Gratitude is set directly against greed, and the question 'with what face?' leaves no room for the lawsuit. It is the moral arithmetic most inheritance quarrels never stop to do.

For You, Today

Before you fight family over what was left behind, count what they already gave you. Some debts of care should make the quarrel over money unaffordable to your conscience.

From the 'ham ko' ghazal in Balwant Singh's mushaira recitation, transcribed from the performance — on the oldest of family fractures, siblings and inherited land, and the gratitude that should outrank it.
Themes:HumilityWisdom
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