Taghaful
Deliberate inattention or feigned negligence by the beloved, who pretends not to notice the lover.
Literally: deliberate neglect, feigned indifference
Taghaful is the beloved's studied inattention — the pointed pretending-not-to-notice, more wounding than open cruelty because it denies the lover even the dignity of being seen. It is indifference wielded as art. The ghazal makes it one of love's keenest pains: to be looked through rather than at, and yet to go on loving the one whose glance you cannot earn.
Naaz
Coquetry, graceful pride, the beloved's charming disdain and airs.
Jafa
Cruelty, unkindness, the beloved's harsh treatment of the faithful lover.
Sitam
Tyranny, oppression, cruelty; the wrong the beloved inflicts on the lover.
Tarsaana
To make one pine; the beloved's keeping the lover in unfulfilled longing.
Ghaflat
Heedlessness; the forgetfulness of God that dulls the heart and opposes remembrance.
Be-niyaazi
Indifference and freedom from need, the proud heart's serene aloofness from want or supplication.