By Mehshar Afridi
aayega guftagu ka saleeqa to kam se kam
shayar bahut zaroori hai ik khaandaan hai

rahta hai sirf ek hi kamre mein aadmi
uska guroor rahta hai baqi makaan mein

The grace of true conversation will come — but for that, at the very least, a poet is essential; a poet is a whole lineage of refinement in himself. A man lives in only one room of the house — his pride occupies all the rest of it.

Romanहिन्दीMehshar Afridi
आएगा गुफ़्तगू का सलीक़ा तो कम से कम
शायर बहुत ज़रूरी है इक ख़ानदान है

रहता है सिर्फ़ एक ही कमरे में आदमी
उसका ग़ुरूर रहता है बाक़ी मकान में

The verse in Devanagari — it carries the authenticity of the original, and every Hindi reader can read it.

♪ Hear the coupletA recitation in a synthesized voice.
The Interpretation

The first couplet makes a quiet case for poetry as the keeper of civilised speech: the art of conversing well does not arrive on its own — it needs a poet, and a single poet carries the cultivation of an entire household within him. The second couplet sharpens into a devastating domestic image: a man occupies one room, but his pride spreads through every other room of the house, taking up all the space he himself cannot fill. The metaphor turns ego into a kind of squatter, claiming territory the man never lives in. Read together, the two verses move from what refines us — the disciplined grace of language — to what bloats us — vanity claiming room it will never use.

For You, Today

Notice how much room your pride is taking up in rooms you never even enter — most of what ego defends is space you were never going to use.

The couplet draws its force from a domestic image anyone can picture instantly.
Themes:EgoThe Self
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Defiance
raah ke patthar ko chaknachoor hona chahiye
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zamin par ghar banaya hai magar jannat mein rahte hain
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ana ka bojh kabhi jism se utaar ke dekh
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