By Balwant Singh
hamaare gham ka andaaza lagaao
hamaare ghar ka batwaara hua hai

Measure the size of our grief — our home itself has been divided up.

Romanहिन्दीBalwant Singh
हमारे ग़म का अंदाज़ा लगाओ
हमारे घर का बँटवारा हुआ है

The verse in Devanagari — it carries the authenticity of the original, and every Hindi reader can read it.

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The Interpretation

Two quiet lines that open onto something enormous. A home being partitioned is, on its face, a family dividing property; but 'ghar ka batwaara' carries the whole weight of separation — of a household, and behind it the memory of a land, broken into shares. The couplet does not describe the grief; it asks you to gauge it, knowing the word 'partition' will do the rest.

For You, Today

Some losses are too large to argue; you can only sit with their size. When a shared home is divided, what is split is never only the property.

Recited by Balwant Singh at the mushaira and transcribed from the performance. 'The partition of a home' reads at once as a family dividing an estate and as the older, larger wound the word carries on the subcontinent.
Themes:Love & LossMemory
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