By Bashir Badr
bade logon se milne mein hamesha faasla rakhna
jahan dariya samundar se mila dariya nahin rahta

Always keep a distance when meeting the great and powerful — where a river meets the ocean, the river ceases to be a river.

Romanहिन्दीBashir Badr
बड़े लोगों से मिलने में हमेशा फ़ासला रखना
जहाँ दरिया समुंदर से मिला दरिया नहीं रहता

The verse in Devanagari — it carries the authenticity of the original, and every Hindi reader can read it.

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The Interpretation

The couplet reads as worldly counsel, then opens into something larger with the river meeting the ocean. The image is generous and cruel at once — the river is not destroyed, only dissolved, its name and shape lost in something vaster. Proximity to power, Badr suggests, costs you your own outline.

For You, Today

When you move close to powerful people, guard the distance that keeps you yourself — admiration can quietly erase the very identity that made you worth knowing.

The river-into-ocean image gives a piece of social caution the weight of a parable about losing oneself.
Themes:The SelfPower
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