By Bashir Badr
parakhna mat parakhne mein koi apna nahin rahta
kisi bhi aaine mein der tak chehra nahin rahta

Do not keep testing people — under scrutiny no one stays "yours"; in any mirror, a face does not linger long.

Romanहिन्दीBashir Badr
परखना मत परखने में कोई अपना नहीं रहता
किसी भी आइने में देर तक चेहरा नहीं रहता

The verse in Devanagari — it carries the authenticity of the original, and every Hindi reader can read it.

♪ Hear the coupletA recitation in a synthesized voice.
The Interpretation

Badr turns a quiet warning into an image you can feel — the mirror that holds a face only for a moment. The first line states the lesson plainly, that scrutiny corrodes intimacy; the second proves it with something everyone has watched happen, a reflection that will not stay. The pairing makes the abstract truth undeniable.

For You, Today

Resist the urge to audit the people close to you for proof of loyalty — constant testing is itself the thing that drives them away.

It belongs to Badr's signature mode, where a hard-won social truth is delivered through a single domestic image rather than argument.
Themes:WisdomFriendship
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