By Ahmad Faraz
karun na magar use
karun aur use

“Let me not remember her — but how am I to forget her? Let me make a ghazal my pretext, and hum her under my breath.”

Romanहिन्दीAhmad Faraz
करूँ न मगर भुलाऊँ उसे
करूँ और गुनगुनाऊँ उसे

The verse in Devanagari — it carries the authenticity of the original, and every Hindi reader can read it.

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The Interpretation

The couplet catches the heart in the act of contradicting itself — the resolve not to remember collapses in the same breath into the impossibility of forgetting. Its loveliest turn is the pretext: the poet pretends he is only crafting a ghazal so that he may, under cover of art, hum the beloved's name aloud.

For You, Today

When you cannot let someone go, notice the small disguises your longing wears — the song, the detour, the pretext — and be honest about what they really are.

One of Faraz's most beloved couplets, prized for making the writing of the ghazal itself the lover's tender alibi.
Themes:LongingMemory
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